Relationship SideChicks

👨🏿‍💻🎬🎥Relationship Remix🎞🎬🎥
I'm starting to rethink the relationship dynamic as far as it pertains to my profession and maintaining a relationship at home. This morning I got a glimpse of the B-side and really started to get an understanding of why men in my profession prefer paid company versus establishing relationships.

This morning in ------------------ I saw a gentleman get dropped off at his truck. He goes to kiss his wife goodbye and she pulls away from him. He asked her what's wrong, and she begins to yell.

You're never home.
I'm always with the kids.
I never see you.
You never make time for us
& a laundry list of other things.

So I hear him say.
We have three girls.
Two of them getting ready for college.
Two cars.
A mortgage.
This truck note from the business I started.
I just came from home time and spending time with you and the girls and you acted as if you didn't want to be bothered. Or I am not even there.
No sex.
No time for us.
No nothing.

"I stay gone so I'm able to contribute and helping my family and the only thing I get from you the past 4 years every time I see you". No sex, no one on one time, no conversation. No nothing. If it's not your work, the kids, or issues at home, "we don't talk" If anyone should complain "it's me". "So why am I coming back to bullshit for doing the right things" as a man?

A few hours pass. I get out of my truck to go inside before it's time for me to roll out. I see another women exit his truck & he's smiling ear to ear. As a man, that's a smile only a physical act can put on a mans face.

So my question is, is he wrong? Is the possibility of "family" or "marriage" or "relationships" inconceivable due to the profession. Because I don't agree with #prostitution but "I understand".

After speaking to a psychologist recently. I asked about the relationship dynamics & what's wrong with them today. "She" explained that most relationships are imbalanced & that imbalance is so severe it's like dealing with four-point restraint mental patients.

In psychology we are instructed to

Earn there Trust
Draw there Story
And take away there Pain

The problem is the trust is not worth earning
The stories are one sided
And the pain is self inflicted

People create there own hell in both the physical & spiritual sense. All we can do it work towards something different & pray for results. Now psychology in prayer usually don't go hand-in-hand but "I do understand".

Anyway just a little something to smoke over holla in a few peace✌🏿

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The Problem Is Choice NEO

The Problem Is Choice NEO
The Problem Is Choice Neo🎥🎬👨🏿‍💻
This video might hit home with anyone who's in the process of #change & #selfemprovement 
I am not a person who dwells on #problems more so, "I am a solution based person".

The only time I focus on a problem is when I am trying to figure out what that issue is. Beside that, it becomes a page in the book called #life & at times most problems don't deserve & page, chapter or honorable mention based on the #novel. 

On the flip side with growth people have to understand that "they are responsible for creating their own hell" with the process of bad decision-making, neglect & all out "being irresponsible". 

So the problem is Choice Neo

#theproblemischoiceneo 
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Pase In Business

P.A.S.E.

When it comes to doing business. You have to know & understand the people you are doing business with. That's why relationship building is so important. Knowing how to deal. Is the best way to fit in & move forward.



Most people become frustrated with the process of relationship building and not being able to identify or understand the types of individuals they're dealing with. So today I watched a smooth talking young man speak to 3 different clients 3 very different ways.



The way he approach each situation was absolutely surgical. When he finished I asked him simply "how did you do that", he replied "you are definitely Action". I did not understand what he meant but I was definitely intrigued.



He spoke of an acronym or letters in an abbreviation. To be switched around to fit each situation/person in its own unique way. He called it P.A.S.E. he also went on to say he paid almost $10,000 for this education that "I got free".



Practical

Action

Social

Emotional



He explained to me that people fit these four categories but not necessarily in that order. You have to cater to their strengths in order to build relationships in business and to close deals. Simply put tell them what they want to hear in at the same time tell the truth.



It's the way that you tell them the truth and what they want to hear that will be the deciding factor of whether or not business will be conducted or you will be turned away.



He used me for an example:

He said you heard something that peaked your interest. You took "Action" by asking.  By me explaining what i know. You will 9 out of 10 use it as a "Practical" approach to your personal business. Practicing &  perfecting what is explained in a "Social" setting among your peers with very little "Emotion" involved.



So mine would be A.P.S.E. all the same letters in a different order that mean the exact same thing. Knowing and understanding this concept which is not as basic. Will set you leaps and bounds ahead of your competition when it comes to business & closing deals.



Now simply because you have an understanding does not mean all the deals will close. Sometimes life just gets in the way however when you understand this concept your deal to close ratio will go up significantly based on the individuals you deal with.



Once you have perfected  this method you may as well start printing money for you industry. This acronym is agnostic and works cross platform in any industry, in any business no matter your education.



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